tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186529039388740133.post5280840095929541473..comments2023-05-16T16:28:13.519+01:00Comments on Fiona's Boots: Apparently it *IS* all about genderFiona Bianchihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15012310367336563633noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186529039388740133.post-34704224662807202752011-09-13T17:21:08.836+01:002011-09-13T17:21:08.836+01:00Well, thanks Georgia! It's nice to be apprecia...Well, thanks Georgia! It's nice to be appreciated lolFiona Bianchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15012310367336563633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186529039388740133.post-68981024167416778302011-09-13T17:17:56.182+01:002011-09-13T17:17:56.182+01:00I LOVE YOU!!!I LOVE YOU!!!Georgia!noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186529039388740133.post-12801173645892839252011-05-29T20:34:23.737+01:002011-05-29T20:34:23.737+01:00You could always think of it as a good thing, I su...You could always think of it as a good thing, I suppose, in that the small minded or petty are self-selecting themselves out...<br /><br />Because seriously, if they're not even willing to admit that's the reason, then you have to wonder what else they don't admit to. I'd say it's a sign that they have control issues, and a relationship where one person wants to control the other is little more than a ticket to MiseryVille.<br /><br />And yeah, I've heard good things about OKCupid too!SChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18250697973265781375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3186529039388740133.post-52866576351315428792011-05-28T06:58:53.429+01:002011-05-28T06:58:53.429+01:00Fiona, I've been thinking about this, and *you...Fiona, I've been thinking about this, and *you*. Firstly, I want to say that I feel for you. Been there!<br />But, importantly, it *isn't* about gender! <br />Think of it from their point of view? They don't wann hear about your medical problems (however you phrase it) up front...<br />My take on it is this: don't wear "trans" as a badge. Let me humbly give you some advice:<br />(1) You now know you can "pass" as lesbian online, and not just "trans"<br />(2) You need to test that in the real world<br />(3) Take "trans" off your profile<br />(4) Don't tell anyone until real-life 2nd date, and they have emotional investment.<br />My humble view is that "trans" is a personal "medical issue", and should be between you and your doctor, period, unless you're close to the point of a physical relationship.<br />Such dating experience, and being routine about "not telling" will thus stand you in good stead should GRS be in your future.<br />Overall, be confident about (2) above, ya hear me!<br />And try OKCupid, that's the 2nd time I've told you... Much love! xthe CFGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12242117031487746611noreply@blogger.com